Monday, October 15, 2012

1st week of fatherhood....


Hey Friends and Family,

I hope everyone is doing good and enjoying life. I had maybe one of the longest weeks of my mission this week. I don't know if it is because I am training now or if the week that I had was above normal in craziness. At times it seems overbearing with the amount of stuff that is going on over hear, but my faith is strengthend each time I tell my self that God will never give me more than I can handle.

Well my sons name is Elder Keddington.  He was born in ‘93, super young! He is from Centerville Utah; I knew I was going to get a white boy from Utah before he even came. He’s pretty cool, super humble, perhaps being overly humble because it’s coming off as a lack of self-confidence. One of my goals this transfer is helping him build his confidence up as a missionary. He has an awesome testimony, and even though he doesn’t understand what anyone is saying he is really willing to learn. One of the members here said that they knew he was going to go far as a missionary because of how badly he wants to learn and be involved. He is such a greenie, one night I went to bed at 9:30 and he got in bed too, then I decided to read my Book of Mormon for a little bit, and so he hopped right up and got his, then at 10:20 or so I got down to pray and I heard him follow, and lastly I got up to go to the bathroom, and when I came out he was outside the door to go right after me. It has made me ever so aware of my actions. I know that he is watching my every move and that how I act now will probably set up how most of his mission is. I want to try hard to set the example for him that I never had. But I will tell you something, it makes me so proud when I see him use something that we learned in studies or that he learned from when I was teaching, in a lesson. Is that what child raising is like?

Like a good father I had to play a prank on him, but he turned out to surprise me. At one of our investigator's homes we planned to play this prank on him with a Habanero. The member ate one with him and he ate this hot, hot, hot chili in two big bites. The member, who is used to eating them, was super worried cause he thought that he was only going to take a small bite. His face got sooo red with sweat pouring down his face. Then his eyes started to water. He tried to play it off like it wasn’t hot, but finally accepted a glass of milk. It was one of the funniest moments of my mission; I was worried at one point though.

Well other than that, we have had to deal with so much this weekend. There has been a series of issues going on with the main family we are teaching. Marsha was baptized this last Saturday. Which was so nice. But the battle to keep the family from fighting along with the other problems that I cant tell anyone about due to privacy is really weighing me down. I feel so bad for Elder Keddington to have to go through all this in his first week. I have been in the field 13 months now and have never had to deal with the things that happened.

Anyway Marsha was baptized and she asked me to do it. Because of some things that happened in the past, she had to be interviewed by one of the counselors in the mission presidency. Apparently in the interview, he did not ask a single one of the questions that are asked in the baptism interview. She was surprised and at the end of the interview she asked why he had not asked her any of the questions that we had prepared her for. He said that he didn’t need to, that he could feel the repentant spirit that she had and knew that she was keeping all of the commandments. He also told her that he feels or "knows" that she will have a happy forever family one-day. It was an awesome experience that I am so happy that Heavenly Father allowed me to be here when she was baptized.

Well I didn’t have much time today to email, I will make sure I have some more time next Monday.

Love,

-Elder Stewart

13 Months and training a greenie......

Dear Friends and Family,

How are all of you? How did you all like conference? It was awesome here in Fabens, Texas. It’s amazing though how many members don’t put much of an emphasis on watching general conference. Maybe its because conference is not quite as good in Spanish as it is in English, but still. I remember when it wasn’t much of a big deal to me, or when I would only listen when President Monson was speaking, but something has changed to the point where I look forward to listening to them talk. I mean, to think, what would I give to hear a talk or hear the testimonies of a Living Peter or John, or Paul, and here we have 15 men who have the same calling and authority as they do. I just love it. Anyway I hit my 13th month mark yesterday, and now have 11 more months in the mission, scary huh?

This week I got a call from President Miller to be a Trainer. I am going to have a son! I’m pretty excited for the opportunity and am excited to see whom I get and how the Lord blesses the area because of him. We had a meeting for trainers and one of the things they shared was this video about Fleas and training them.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GlpjA-QgmQM I think it was pretty cool. Well this means that my companion now will be leaving. He is not too happy about it cause this is his first area. I told him he would get used to change, like me. I’ve gotten a new companion for the last 4 transfers in a row, which is pretty rare.

I really love conference this weekend, and actually went into the session looking for some specific answers, to some problems we are having with our investigators right now, and also what it is I need to do with my new greenie coming in. And I can report that it actually works. People always told me it would but I still didn’t really try to look for the answers that come by the Holy Ghost, because they really do. Some of the things I really liked are:

·       President Uchtdorf's talk about how living the principles of the gospel can help us live a life that we won’t regret later. Like spending more time with our families. How we need to stop focusing on what we think or want to become in this life and start to focus more on becoming the person God intended for us to be. Good intentions are not enough.
·       M. Russell Ballard's about the honeybee and how the church needs to be like a beehive.
·       D Todd Christofferson about our duties in the priesthood. Being men that women, children, and God can trust.
·        President Eyring spoke of how blessed he felt when he learned that he had the spiritual gift of being a peacemaker. He then taught that we each have a spiritual gift. (It says in D & C 46:11 "...That to every man is given a gift by the Spirit of God.”) Pres. Eyring also encouraged us to identify which spiritual gift(s) we possess. You may have a Spiritual gift highlighted in your Patriarchal Blessing or you can pray to know which gift you have been given.
·       My favorite though was David A. Bednar's talk on Testimony and Conversion. How a testimony alone will not be enough to save us in our times and we need to work towards being truly converted to the Gospel. "Testimony+Conversion" brings the strength we will need to stay firm and steadfast. And that we need to set aside our weapons of rebellion.
Anyway I’m really excited for the next few transfers. Thank you for all your love and prayers.
   
-Elder Stewart

Fabens blessed with another baptism...


Hey Friends and Family,

I hope everyone is doing well and loving life like I am, because its a wonderful thing. There's a secret, and its called the gospel of Jesus Christ. Anyway, I had an amazing week this week. The Lord did some amazing miracles through us over the past few weeks, and my testimony of putting names in the temple grew so much. On Saturday Marsha and Armando got married. It was another one of those times where someone is so willing to follow God's precepts that they change their natural and comfortable lifestyle to make the huge commitment of marriage. The ceremony lasted 20 mins and there was no dress, rings, fancy appetizers, or flowers. Just the Spirit of God. Thats what it is about. I hope my wife will get it. I'm not saying I don’t want rings or a dress for her. But I don’t want to lose sight of what its all about. Marsha is preparing to be baptized next sunday in between conferences.

Sunday the Lord blessed Fabens with the baptism of Nathan, Son of Marsha and Armando. He is such a good kid. He was having some problems at school, and it was causing a lot of problems with his parents. When last Sunday he asked us more about the Holy Ghost and God. After a little explanation he told us he wanted to be baptized as well. We had been teaching his mom for 3 weeks now and Nathan never joined us, so we went over there everyday for the whole week and taught him all the lessons and he read the Book of Mormon everyday by himself. He had his interview, and I was honestly scared that he wasn’t really ready and that he would get nervous and not remember anything. When our district leader came out, he told us that we did an amazing job teaching him, he knew everything, and is more prepared than anyone he gave an interview to before. It really made me think about teaching though. We only taught him for 1 week, and he is only 15 years old, but he understood it all.

We had a zone conference this week about becoming a "Master Teacher". The training was that we are striving to become master teachers. and what I got out of it is that a "Master Teacher" has little to do with talking skills, or you teaching really at all. A master teacher is in how someone prepares to teach. There are a few points that I came up with of how we prepare before we teach:

1. Be Obedient and do morning studies so that the Spirit can be at the lesson
2. Understands fully the principles that are going to be taught. (examples, scriptures, concepts, questions, and commitments)
3. Practices with a companion so that you have the courage to "Open your mouth", share ideas and promptings, and teach in unity.
4. When it comes to the lesson, "gets out of the way"

Like 2 Nephi 33:1 says, It's the "spirit that carries it to the heart of the children of men" not my smooth talking abilities.

The baptism was beautiful this sunday. So glad I have the opportunity to be here.

Love,

Elder Stewart